(both in Capricorn) I am one person with one persons experience, of course. It is sad! Thank you again. I had a very intense, psychically damaging and life changing relationship with a man whose Eros was directly conjunct my Lilith, and also more loosely conjunct my Neptune & Descendant. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? In mythology, Eros was the god of sexual love and desire. What would that mean? We are mesmerized, enchanted, and even obsessed with this person. I seem to be one of the rare people doing it lol. As long as we kept connecting the way we had been sexually, I was willing to "fight" for what I thought we had and felt I could withstand anything. It makes sense when you consider how deeply Lilith desires to eat/destroy her loves mythologically. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. 9. there is no contact in real life anymore but the connection via the sexual chakra (either sacral or root chakra ) is still there and very strong. Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. Ami is an insightful astrology. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. Do you think the way it plays out ties into whatever our attitudes toward Eros/Lilith themes (erotic transformation, primal urges, etc) were to begin with? Who would bring who abuse? Thats why its so weird bc it is a very good longterm relationship. Lilith, both Black Moon and Asteroid 1181, brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger, rejection and rage. Youll always want to look at the chart as a whole, read everything as a metaphors, and use your intuition. I still talk to him to this day and I honestly will never forget how magnetic this relationship was. Lets see. Who is whom? There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? He has pholus conjunct dejanira, all on my BML exact. The conjunction is excact. I would have to see the rest of the chart to tell more though, my Friend. My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). I dont want to assume that having Nessus conj BML means Im going to be abusive in sexual relationships. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. "In Greek art Eros was depicted as a winged youth, slight but beautiful, often with eyes covered to symbolize the blindness of love. They may not be able to see what you are up to and you could use this for your gain. My Dejanira is in 5 Sag, like his North Node. This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. That is what I was saying. Btw he just got married to a girl whose moon is conjunct with his nessus+sun+true node AND also, her dejanira is conjunct with his moon !!! My ex has Scorpio Pluto conjunct my scorpio moon, and I have Sagittarius pluto conjunct his sagittarius moon. 3. 1. If you know, let me know! The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. As such, I would be careful and watchful. Lots of good aspects so thats why the Nessus Dejanira confuses me. Eros represents our passionate and erotic energy and how we use it. Any comments will help. I am not surprised this happened to you. Moon/Pluto as a conjunction is not dark , per se. That is most certainly not the truth. Not sure which one id prefer. You never want to leave your beloveds side until they put you in the grave. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. In this case Nessuus is retro in conjunction with the North node. His abuse asteroid on her midheaven would be her reputation and career, right? When someone's planet touches our natal Eros in synastry, it is as if we have been stuck by Cupid's arrow. Your feelings are not fact. You do not have to do their chart. I have looked at them unto themselves but everything matters so I will start to incorporate signs and houses. Playing with someones emotions when these aspects are involved could lead to bad things such as violence. Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. I can relate to everything Ive read from you. And posting my charf sounds like fun, I just might . Our composite moon is at 26 Virgo and pluto at 0 libra. his moon is in cancer so depending on what time hes born, there are 2 scenarios :1) my Saturn squares his moon but my sun and north node would conjunct it 2) my Pluto would square his moon but our moons would be in trine. They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. It makes my day , What conjuncts the DSC, we disown and find in the partner. When Eros touches the Sun, the energy of both the Sun and Eros awaken between . Because of where my Moon is at 2 56 Scorpio conjunct Pluto at 4 36 Scorpio in the 8th house the men around my age (Im 35);tend to have their Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto In my current relationship my boyfriend has Mars/Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto. Is there any way this could play out in a positive manner or should I watch my back? My Nessus square his Venus With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. Do you know what these aspects could mean? Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. I have my nessus conjunct with my true node. The exception would be the person who overcame it through God. How fortunate we are to have such a wonderful body of info to help us! That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. It was a relationship based on dates and romance instead of the realities of life. Does it matter if he doesnt have pluto in aspect to my venus (mine is 19 Libra)? The pairing can easily fulfill the other's sexual desires and unlock some of their naughty fantasies. Thank you, amiann. Do you have any advice for me? This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. His moon also conjunct my IC, orb 1. In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry. When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. Not good, my Friend. This is not a dark aspect, either. Further, there is such a thing such as free will. They made my day, Jeanie. Eros thrills, scares and creates intense bonds. I think Chiron is extremely important in any synastry chart because it speaks to the deepest wounds created between two people. 2) I just looked for the child asteroid and it is on 28 Capricorn, conjuct with my venus 1 Aquarius. Which probably held it together for SO long. What does that mean? It makes me feel very crazy. I hear your concern. Your email address will not be published. It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. I guess ill post mine and then our synastry chart. However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. This is not to say it would be better or even easier. . In other words, if a mans Nessus conjuncts your ASC, he will abuse you, in my opinion. The conjunction is especially strong, but the trine, square, and opposition can also indicate a past life connection or marriage. Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. Please, keep giving your opinion. Synastry: Sun square Pluto, sun conjunct Amor, sun conjunct psyche, Pluto conjunct moon, Venus square Pluto, (they have Venus square Pluto)natal also, mars sextile Venus, Mars conjunct Sappho and trine Uranus (they have mars square Uranus natal mars) tine Jupiter, Venus conjunct Neptune and sun conjunct Venus and Eros square Pluto, Eros conjunct kaali, Venus conjunct kaali all opposite Nessus!! It doesnt always make for the easiest of relationships, because both people come into the marriage with the weights of the past life issues, but it definitely has staying power. It is a pleasure to be here. Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. Lets hope more info comes out about this connection.:). No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. I cant really relate to Nessus at all, though I sometimes think I can feel BML itching under my skin. -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). He was considered irresistible. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. You can say you did it and you can help the next person who comes along. Thank you Ariel! TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. and DW : womans Nessus (13 Gemini) opposite mans Juno ( 12 Sag). Nessus conj the NN in synastry would make me RUN and fast lol. It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. 3) Angles in the houses & aspects. Can it be dangerous amiann? I am sorry. I will try to maintain rock solid boundaries and not get led into any weirdness as nothing is amiss yet. I know there are astrologers who make every aspect positive but I dont think that is real and real is what heals and real is what gets people mad at you too lol. His ascendant is at 24 Virgo and has 0 Virgo in his 12th house. It always starts this way. I am so thankful to have such a resource like this for guidance. Mars pluto aspects I was wondering how abuse would play itself out if the Nessus-Deja synastry conjunction is in Cancer. we also have Eros (his) conjunct my Lilith and Pluto (mine) conjunct his Venus. Is there a good part to Nessus/deja conjunct? I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus. Yes, it would. Eros: Synastry Aspects . I reply to the comments out of order because I do it on the central comment form. There is the potential to take things to another realm when the aspects are favorable. We talk about it often (3rd house moon overlay) its just a bit overwhelming sometimes like a sweet dream one moment, then an absolute nightmare.